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As parents, we wear many hats – mentors, role models, and guardians. However, in our pursuit of providing the best for our children, we often “miss the forest for the trees.” We attempt to give them the best education, clothing, and food, but in doing so, we may unconsciously create a sense of entitlement.
Avoid Comparisons – The “Apple of Your Eye” Comparing your child to others is like “comparing apples and oranges”. It’s unfair and unproductive. Instead, compare their progress to their own potential. This encourages self-motivation and improvement, helping them become the best version of themselves.
Financial Responsibility – “A Bird in the Hand is Worth Two in the Bush” Introduce financial responsibilities from age 10. Discuss family expenses, such as grocery bills and maintenance costs, and encourage your child to look into these expenses. This helps them prioritize needs over wants and “make every penny count.
“Establish Family Rules – “United We Stand, Divided We Fall” Create a set of family rules, such as care, share, respect, and donate. Ensure your child understands these rules and lead by example. Children learn from their parents’ actions, so “practice what you preach”.
Tech-Free Time and Zones – “A Family That Eats Together, Stays Together” Designate dinner time as a tech-free period. This encourages meaningful conversations and strengthens emotional bonds. Reduce mobile devices and gadgets in bedrooms, replacing them with storybooks. This creates a love for reading and promotes healthy sleep habits.
By incorporating these values, you’ll help your child develop essential life skills, emotional intelligence, and a stronger connection with your family. Remember, “children learn what they live,” so lead by example and “set the bar high”.
By
Ms Divya M
Vice Principal
Advita International School
Karimnagar
